The other week, I wrote about going to the Santa Fe Opera鈥檚 鈥淟a Boh猫me鈥 on a first date. The Journal received so much positive feedback about that piece that they decided to send me back for Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart鈥檚 鈥淭he Marriage of Figaro.鈥 But 鈥渕arriage鈥 is a pretty scary word to throw around on a second date, and Danielle 鈥 my date from last time 鈥 said she鈥檇 rather our next meet-up be something a bit more casual. So, for 鈥淔igaro,鈥 I went with friends.
More accurately, I knew my friends Amy and Valery were planning to attend together, and Amy put me in touch with a documentary filmmaker named Stephanie to be my plus-one. The four of us planned to meet for the pre-opera tailgate.
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